Chaos and Order
I don't believe in destiny, karma or faith. Although it seems deceivingly orderly for a large part of it, life can be random and chaotic. This usual orderliness makes it more difficult for people to accept the chaos. We get angry and confused because we don't get it, this hostile reality wasn't cut for us. We often don't seem to believe it either, even when the scientific facts are laid in front of our feet. It is contra-intuitive and most importantly inconvenient. The inconvenient truth. Your are not as special as you think, there is no big plan for you, there in no greater picture. Not the way you were made believe at least.
However, it doesn't mean that it doesn't make sense. Who cares if you are not as special as they told you you were? You are still a lot special. You are unique. And you are lucky to be alive. You are here to make a difference or enjoy life, or both. You are here to love. So, I would say stop whining and start living successfully and decently. The instructions are simple: embrace chaos but don't let it drown you. You can control what is within your power as perfectly as you can by accumulating as much knowledge and information possible on the initial circumstances. Let go of what you cannot control. Persist even when it looks like you are losing at that point and most importantly: pay attention and never forget the ones you love.