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Our society has changed a lot because of technology, it made our lives easier and it made us find love at a convenient way. Many of us now have been to so many romances and I can say that most of us have a lot of experiences when it comes to dating someone. But we are never really prepared to date someone who is a violent person. Everything might have changed but violence never really left. It still is inside other people and they inflict it upon their pair which is why so many couples have toxic romances and many people are suffering silently. When you are romantically involved with a violent person, I am very sorry that you have to go through such a tough time with them. You should never forget that there are many people who are willing to help you. For those people who are not familiar with this situation, here is what it feels like being with a violent pair.

You would follow whatever they say to not annoy them. These types of people can be mostly demanding because they think they’re the alpha pair. They always want you to agree on everything even if it’s against to your will. They always love to make you agree on everything because they don’t give approvals on anyone on that matter. They’re thinking that everything comes to their mind is best, even there would be a flaw. They don’t accept mistakes or opinion that’s why you should be careful on your words.

You would never feel love for them but contempt. You wouldn’t feel loved from them because they already did a lot of damages to you. It’s hard to bring the love back sometimes but at the same time you’re still chained up to that crazy relationship. Sometimes you can’t give up on them because you love them but you feel contempt too because they don’t bring good to you. You should think about your well-being because it’s not all about him/her, it’s all about your world and your own self. Join localgirlhookups.com/lesbian-hookup/ and explore the endless possibilities of love, with a world of exciting new connections waiting for you.

You would always be careful of your actions. You will be living in an everyday paranoia because you don’t know what he/she will do to you. It is like a feeling when he/she has the eyes of everything and everyone. You will not know when will they lay a hand on you. You should be always careful of your actions because we won’t know what they will do to you.

You would always feel like you are in danger. It’s just like living on an edge. Danger from your pair can be lethal mentally, emotionally, and physically. Mentally in a way that you’ll feel drained. Emotionally in a way that you couldn’t expect from your partner doing such dangerous act to you. Physically in a way that those marks can be a part of your life’s scar. If you feel like in danger, you shouldn’t stir your mind.

You would always be afraid of their presence. There is no time for you to relax whenever he/she is there. Their presence makes you cripple and couldn’t make your mind clear as if you are already ran out of choices. You might end getting locked up in a situation where there is no way for you to outrun its deeds. As if you don’t have the rights to think about yourself.