The Internet Is Full Of Crap
...and the majority of this isn't real.
The hustlers, the freelancers, the rise-and-grinders, the marketers, the content specialists, and especially the influencers are full of complete garbage. None if them are really like that, living their best life, uber-successful people raking in the dough. They are portraying an image on a digital medium (that we call the World Wide Web) and they are trying to convince you they are something they are not. If they were somebody, they wouldn't spend that much time on the Internet.
This is a general rule of thumb. Take it seriously.