“Here and now” is overvalued! (or live in the future for the past, both of which you can’t change)
Dear Coilers, do you know Stefano? You don’t? Never mind. Stefano was asked by a friend if he lives in the past and future or here and now. Stef told him: “Bro! I live in the Whenthef@%kIwant!”
He was wrong, of course (🙄) as he does live in the past and the future, like all of us.
As I’m not familiar with writing philosophical articles ill stick to an ancient form of philosophical dialogue. Let’s see where will it take us to...
Prologue: Stefano (S) and his friend (F) are floating in a lifeboat in the middle of the Adriatic Sea, somewhere in the half way between Italy and Croatia. A friend is in panic, loudly thinking and discussing what they should do NOW while Stefano is just watching the sea while opening a beer, one of which, he saved from the sunk sailboat...
F: How can you drink beer now? You should better think of what we should do now!
S: There is no water in a lifeboat.
F: There is no water because you put a case of beer in lifeboat and sailboat had sunk before you reached for water!
S: Why havent you taken water with you instead of your iPhone and wallet?
F: We need phone to call for help.
S: There is no signal and your battery is at 13%
F: It’s at 13% because you were charging your camera and laptop, thats why we dont have full battery now.
S: If you knew the sailbot would sink you could have charged it on time. Why haven’t you?
F: I didnt know. And you know that.
S: So you agree that it wasn’t a problem in me charging camera and laptop?!
F: It doesn’t matter now.
S: That’s what I say as well. Now doesn’t matter.
F: What do you think by now doesn’t matter? Do you live here and now or in the past or maybe in the future?
S: I think that it just doesn’t matter. I live in the Whenthef@%kIwant! Here and Now is overvalued. It is all about the past and the future.
F: It does matter! What we do now will influence our future.
S: What we do now will be past in the very next moment. So whatever we do now will be a decision we made in the past to form our future. Which will also be past when it happens.
F: But here and now we have to act. We can’t act in the past nor we can act in future.
S: We can only act in future from the perspective of here and now! If I decide to open another beer (while throwing empty bottle in the sea) it will be act I’ll do in the future. Even if the part of the process of opening beer is now, the moment the beer is open will mean that it was opened in the past!
F: So you say that there is no now?
S: We can say that now is a border on which future becomes past. And it is even not a definite line. To make it easier, there is no now.
F: So you say we should live in the past or the future?
S: We should make future decisions which we won’t regret when they become the past. As the consequences of the past decisions will turn into consequences we suffered from in the past.
F: This means we can change the past by changing decisions we make for the future?!