You are Good Enough!
Why Being Yourself is AWESOME
Being yourself seems very simple, but it not always easy. We live in a world where appearance and money is the determinant of one's worth. If you don't follow the society's norms, you're either bullied, left out, or ridiculed.
This is why today’s culture teaches children to behave in a certain way. At a young age, they learn to change certain aspects of their behavior and personality to fit the expectations of others. When they grow older, they need to seek society's approval which eventually could become a problem. It hampers their personal growth and success. This will eventually create issues in their personal and professional relationships. This mindset needs to change!
Being your true and authentic self will work wonders in your life. Showing people your flaws, strengths, and quirks will lead you to become successful, healthier, and happier. If you don't believe me, here are five wonderful results of being true and being you.
***1. You will find your people
***
You can pretend to be someone else but you can never be like them. You are you. Believe it or not, you can offer more than what you imitate. If you feel like you need to change to make friends, it means that you are surrounded by fake and shallow people. Real friends don't dictate what you should be. They accept who you are and help you build yourself from the ground up.
Changing yourself to impress others will only earn you fake friends. They only love you because of what you look like and what you offer. But when you no longer have anything, they'll leave you in the dust. It's not worth it to spend time with people who will leave you the moment you show a moment of weakness.
When you show your true personality, you will be surrounded by people who will embrace you for who you are. This is true not just in finding real friends but also in finding the right partner. Faking who you are will create shallow and empty relationships. Letting your partner get to know the real you will help create a deeper and more meaningful connection.
*****2. You will gain confidence
*****
While living a certain way can help you fit in, it can be a constant stressor. You will feel insecure and will keep changing yourself to fit the person you want to show. Eventually, you will feel demotivated and frustrated. You will realize that you're not happy by keeping up with others' expectations and comparing yourself to other people.
You need to understand that you don’t always have to be liked or be impressive. What matters is you love yourself enough to be comfortable in your own skin. This is where confidence starts. When you feel happy with what you do, this joy will surround you and will define your environment. If you feel content with who you are, you can be anything and be proud of it.
*****3. Unleash your talents
*****
Manipulating yourself to fit other’s expectations takes too much energy and will eventually burn you down. Plus, this limits your potential. It directs you to a path that doesn't encompass your competence.
Being yourself makes it all easier. It allows you to focus on the present and find out what you really want to do. The more you try to unleash who you are, the more you show the world your creativity, nerve, skill, and talent. This way, you can use all your energy to achieve your own dreams and not the objectives that other people want you to accomplish.
*****4. You will find peace
*****
Many people choose to give in to society’s expectations. They pretend to be someone else to prove that they are worth the friendship and love given by the people around them. Every day they put on a mask and try to blend in. But behind that façade is the deep-seated fear of being alone. If this fear persists, it will lead to anxiety and depression. It will lead to a dysfunctional life full of stressors frustrations.
Being yourself prevents this from happening. If you show the world who you are, you will attract people who will support you throughout every challenge. You will be contented with what you can provide. You'll be comfortable at the rate at which you are learning and progressing. If you focus on the real you and be honest with yourself, you can achieve peace and tranquility. It allows you to build a strong and extraordinary personality that only a few percent of the world's population possesses.
***5. You get to know You
***
When you become yourself, you understand why you talk, why you walk, and why you act in a specific manner. As you get to know more about yourself, you figure out what makes you happy and contented. You realize what you need. Plus, you get a clearer vision of who you are.
This ability to introspect the self gives you a sense of identity. With this, you will know your purpose in life. You can finally set goals and expectations that compliment what you want to be in the future. This makes you 20 times closer to achieving your dreams.
Many people go through life pretending to be something they're not and they seem to be okay with it. Little do they know that this make will make them feel empty and lonely in the long run. The need to constantly control yourself and your experiences to be accepted is not healthy. It chases away your chances of building a strong and intimate relationship with yourself and with other people. Plus, it can hamper you in achieving your dreams.
So, choose to live life on your terms. Do not compromise your personality just to meet other people’s expectations. Do what you love and live up to your true potential. Make your dreams come true by being you. The secret to a happy life is authenticity. This is even supported by research. Experts found that people who live authentically are less distressed and more satisfied with their lives.