
The last couple weeks/ months I see video's, tweets, challenges that triggered me to find out more about this person.... She has been part of the XRPCommunity for ....??.... years and there is so much more behind the pictures, Cinnamon, Coil and the little bio on twitter:

I have had contact with The Mind, Untangled ..... Sandra for a long time and she took the time to answer. She wanted it to be perfect, and that takes time ! ! ! Let me share with you, she put everything in this interview ..... you, COIL reader will be amazed ! ! !
Well let's dive in, this is going to be a GOOD interview .... actually receiving all the answers from Sandra, I am amazed by her, what a story. Please join me in this little adventure:
XRPTwin:
Who are YOU ? ? ?

Sandra:
I am Sandra, also known as Sandy to my family and close friends. Growing up, I was always “Sandy” but when I moved out on my own to conquer the world, I kind of went to Sandra, because every time I would pronounce my name, “Sandy” people would question if it was “Andy” or ask me, “who?” …. I couldn’t pronounce my “s” right, and still can’t with some words, but I don’t take it so personally anymore.
I am in my 40th year and I share that with a twin sister, but I guess I’m also the “middle” child since I am 17 minutes older! Are we identical? Not if you look at us, but the whole way the egg thing was, it showed that we are! We have always been super close, we share a bond with each other that I can’t even describe. No, we can’t read each other’s minds, but it’s weird that sometimes it was almost like we felt that kind of connection. There have been a few times where she knew I was upset, and it just freaked me out! How the heck did she know? Too weird!!!
XRPTwin: Well I guess something in common, the Twin thing :–) , 2 minutes difference though, I am the middle one also, and that connection, it definitely is there ! ! !
I also have an older brother, and we are also very close. Him and his wife live in Nunavet, where they manage a business there! They come home for five weeks in the summer and that’s when we get to spend time with each other and catch up (even though we have quick chats every day!). We share a common ground – we both have Usher Syndrome, which to put in simple terms, is a combination of hearing loss and vision loss.
Since you ask about my vision in another question, I will get more into detail there.
My family is a “tight” family. We have always been incredibly supportive of each other. I seriously don’t know what I would have done if I didn’t have their love and support. We come from an Italian background (both my parents were born in Sicily, moved to Canada when they were really young)...I can’t speak the language, nor do I really understand it, but I picked up on the words that I needed to learn. If you know me, then you know that I love everything about being Italian – the food, the music, the language, and the country.
BUT, I do love that I am Canadian, growing up in Ontario, and especially during these times, I consider myself fortunate to be in Canada.

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Let’s get to the now – I am a stay-at-home mom to three teenage girls, now ages 13, 14, and 16. I was married for seven years, and had my three girls. It was a bit of an ugly court process, and after a three day trial, I gained sole custody, so they are with me all of the time except every other weekend, and you know, the regular kind of schedule for holidays.
I remarried two years ago to Mark, and am also a stepmother to his children – ages 13, 15, 23, and 26. Mark’s two younger ones are with us 50 percent of the time – shared custody, and the two older boys are out on their own, but we see them a few times throughout the year!
XRPTwin: wow, busy times at the Sandra & Mark residence ! ! !
Mark and I met through our children – through school, four years ago now. It’s funny how life works, just when you least expect things to happen, they do. Three of our children are on the spectrum and one with Tourette’s. OCD and anxiety also run in our family, but, those are just labels, right? We are who we are, and we try to make the best of each day given to us!
I remember when I first met Mark, one of the things he said to me was that he was easy. We both found it easy being with each other and connected. We both understood what it was like raising children with challenges. We have both been through enough bullshit in our past and it was nice to finally meet someone who we could connect with. Now don’t get me wrong, nothing in life ever really comes easy, and we do have our moments, just like everyone does. But, we respect each other, we do things together, and we take it day by day.
These past four years that Mark and I have been together, we have been fortunate to travel and see the world. Some times have been with the children, but also some without. That’s one thing we have enjoyed, and it brings us joy to be able to experience different countries and their culture.

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XRPTwin:
Over-simplifying or Over-complicating ? ? ?
Sandra:
Hmmmm…In whose eyes? Lol…where’s Mark? I should ask him! No, but in all honesty, maybe I’m “over-analysing”. Generally, I am easy-going, and damn, I don’t like drama, as no one does. I try to keep things as simple as I can, but truth be told – my mind gets tangled pretty easily with thoughts that I just sometimes can’t control, and really makes me over-analyse. I have to put myself in check and remind myself that “over-analysis leads to paralysis”.

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XRPTwin:
You are big with TikTok, how did that start, what to like about it ? ? ?
Sandra:
I started doing TikTok pretty much when the pandemic started. I found that my anxiety was creeping in too much again, and I needed to do something “fun” to ease my mind in a different way.
Homeschooling five children is not an easy chore, especially when working with children with special needs. Some of my TikToks include my children, and it brings happiness. It is a “break” from the real world. It is acting, it is fun. I couldn’t put words down on paper, my writing on Coil decreased SIGNIFICANTLY, and my social media has been affected.
But I know that there are people I don’t even know who look to my pages for reassurance, and so I try to keep up with it as much as I can. I try to keep up with my friends that I have met through Coil as much as I can too, and even though I don’t comment on tweets because I’ve missed it, I do read the articles I am interested in.

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I am one of those people who like to try different things – And I guess I change my mind a lot. I’m guilty, but that’s who I’ve always been and that’s who I am. I like to be spontaneous. And yes, that has affected past relationships, but I try to do things in life that make sense. To me. And my family. With the TikTok – it brings my family together for some laughs, you know? Especially through these times. It’s tough on the kids not being able to socialise and do the things they have been used to. It’s tough mentally, emotionally, and physically. And it’s tough as parents, so what do we do??! We try to bring laughter and joy into our lives. As a writer and influencer, I haven’t had much time to sit at my computer and think about what I want to write, so I make videos that allow me to laugh at myself, as well as those around me. I am happy to have been able to bring laughs to my family and friends through these times. It makes me happy, you know?
XRPTwin:
So your eyes are a bit of a problem. Can you share with us exactly what is wrong with them and what impact this has on your life ? ? ?
Sandra:
My eyes. Ah, my eyes. I mentioned that I have what you call, “Usher Syndrome”. A combination of Retinitis Pigmentosa (RP) and hearing loss. So, RP is defined as gradual loss of vision leading to blindness. My peripheral vision is closing in and I have night blindness. I wear hearing aids but, my hearing hasn’t gotten worse, just the high pitched sounds a bit. When I don’t have my hearing aids on, the sounds are muffled, but I read lips so that has been a blessing.
Although with these masks now, it makes it tougher.
XRPTwin:
I have SO not thought about that. Reading lips in time of Covid-19 ..... yeah, that kinda defeats the purpose ! ! !
Experiencing vision loss hasn’t been easy, hence a major reason as to why I get anxious so easily. The hearing loss, okay – that’s been since I was five years old, so I know no different. But when I notice my vision closing in, I get scared. It’s natural to get scared, but if you want to be in my mind for just a second:
imagine if you’re in the kitchen sweeping the floor. You think you’re done, then you step in a pile that you missed because you didn’t see it.
Or
if you open a cupboard to get something, but didn’t realise the fridge was open, and WHAM, you bonk your head right into it. Not fun, right?
Or
when someone is trying to shake your hand or pass you something, you don’t see it and you feel like an ass because they’re there holding their hand out, and you’re just carrying on the conversation.
XRPTwin:
Well Sandra, the good thing about that ..... you are save and sound regarding Covid-19; no hand shaking, ultimate way of NOT touching ! ! !
Out in public, you trip over the curb, and people look at you funny and you get all embarrassed. Or you accidentally bump into the person you didn’t see standing RIGHT beside you. Or see the person wave to you (no, I’m not ignorant, I just didn’t see you!).
There are so many different ways that my vision loss has impacted my life. And it’s all a learning curve. I try to make jokes out of it – oh the damn wall, when did it get there? I put the blame on the object so as to forget the inner pain and fear I feel – the frustrations.
Losing my license hit me hard. I had to stop working because of transportation, relocating, and my mental health. I was a single mom of my girls when I lost my license, working as a paralegal in a prestigious law firm, and just like that – I couldn’t do it anymore. My life turned in an instant and I started going downhill fast.
Today now, I still have my “depressive” moments, I get all quiet and keep to myself for a bit, but then I talk about it and let out a good cry. I do things that can make me laugh. I write, sing, dance. Deep breaths. Sure, I don’t like going out unless I absolutely have to, it makes me nervous.
Home is my safe place.
I try not to think about it too much because I want my kids to enjoy life. I want them to be able to say, “If mom can do it, then I can”. I want them to know that shit happens in life, and sometimes, there’s just not a goddamn thing we can do about it.
So, I keep pushing forward.
I have to keep things where they are supposed to be/where they are left, or I’m spending too much time looking for it. And, I have had to and have, accepted that some things, I just can’t do anymore because it’s too hard. I understand sometimes my friends and family can’t understand why I don’t want to socialise sometimes, but I just don’t have the energy sometimes or the mentality. You know what I mean? I always say, “one day at a time. Baby steps.” That’s something I really do.
XRPTwin:
A typical day can you walk us through? ? ?
Sandra:
A typical day with five kids or three? Lol
A typical day is usually waking up, and as bad as it sounds, I HAVE to have my coffee and cigarette first thing.

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I still wake up most mornings with my mind racing, heart pounding. It’s an uncomfortable feeling, but I get myself out of bed, and I get the day going.
Breakfast for the kids, whoever is awake. Since the pandemic, it’s been a bit out of sorts – the girls wake up at odd hours because they are awake playing games or chatting with friends at night, so that’s been tough, but
it seems like it’s the norm nowadays.
I mean, it’s not their fault the world did a flip! Lunch, videos in between, dinner. We watch tv at night, if we are not spending time at the trailer, where we will have a BBQ and play cards with my parents. The kids enjoy the swimming, fishing, and being outdoors. Biking, walks. I really don’t know how to describe a typical day here because it’s different every day! I just go with the flow. Mark has opened his store again (video store/bedding/meats and cheese), so I will bring him lunch and take smoke breaks with him as we chat about the day. Then, back with the kids. Showers. Laundry. Dishes. Cooking. It really is hard to describe.
XRPTwin:
One thing we do NOT know about you ? ? ?
Sandra:
Something you don’t know about me? There are lots of things lol. I haven’t shared my whole personal life through my blogging or speaking, but I will share this -
I like playing Black Jack
Mark and I both do, so we look at it as a date night for us when we don’t have the kids. We figure why spend the money on a movie or dinner when we can enjoy a night of cards for the same amount, and maybe even leave with extra?! It’s an interacting game – we sit at the same table and I’m one of those people who gets way too excited when I win on a hand so unexpected! I’ve done the double down when I shouldn’t have, yes, but it worked out for me AND the table, so it was all good! There was one time on a cruise we went on and the people all knew I was going to double down lol – it was fun! We’ve met couples and have had our share of fun! One time on a cruise, we entered a black jack tournament. I ended up winning and got a seat (worth $500 USD) to sit in the big black jack tournament on a seven day cruise!! The grand prize was $100K, but the timing was off. It was for September and I couldn’t go because of the responsibilities I have at home.
It’s okay though – everything happens for a reason
so maybe it wasn’t my time to go!! But we’ve made great friends playing cards, and it’s been really great!!
XRPTwin:
Last time you laughed SOOOO hard .... ? ? ?
Sandra:
Hahaha, the last time I laughed SOOOO hard is easy to remember.
With my mom, last week.
So I mentioned how we go there to play cards, right? We sit at the table, and sometimes, take breaks then get back to playing. If you know me, then you know that I’ve been the same weight throughout my years, and well, let’s just say, since this whole pandemic, I’ve gained a few pounds and some. I know it, my family knows it. Fine. Lol. So, this one particular time, I went to sit at the table, and my damn stomach hit it when I was going to sit down! This NEVER happened to me before…EVER, except for when I was pregnant. Makes sense. “Ma, do you see this? I’m telling you, I’ve gained weight. Watch, look at my stomach when I sit down.” So I showed her – up and down, up and down. My stomach kept hitting the table!! LOL
My mom just starts laughing, and so I start laughing!
OMG, and we both laughed harder, with tears coming out of our eyes. It was priceless, that moment!! It felt SO great to laugh out loud, and we couldn’t stop!!!! I love how it was with mom. My mom is so awesome!!
XRPTwin:
Last time you cried SOOOO hard .... ? ? ?
Sandra:
And so it comes to the last time when I cried SOOOO hard. Honestly, it was around Father’s Day, when I shared my TikTok video when I’m with my dad – “Stand By Me” is the song. I will say right now here too, my dad is so awesome!! It made me sad to watch the video I made, because it’s such a beautiful song, and I have such a close relationship with both my parents.
I worry about them and their health. I said to my mom that day, with tears streaming down my cheeks (okay, sobbing), “you both better not go anywhere anytime soon.” I just can’t think of that because they mean the world to me. I’m lucky they live close and I can spend time with them. Family is everything to me
XRPTwin:
Okay Okay ... we need to ask some crypto questions ! ! !

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XRPTwin:
How did You get involved in crypto when, how , why ? ? ?
Sandra:
CRYPTO questions! I was first into Bitcoin, when Mark’s older son mentioned it to him, back in 2017. Mark and I both got into Bitcoin when it was the big hype. Then I started looking into more crypto and did some day trading but even that only lasted a few months – never enough hours in a day. But Mark was more interested in XRP and had mentioned that I should do my blogging on Coil. I never did look into it (because I already have my website theminduntangled.com, and didn’t think I needed to);
BUT,
then he noticed Ken’s Tweet about Coil and the community group, which I decided to join, and the rest is history! I do all of my blogging on the Coil Platform now and have posted more and more of my videos on Cinnamon. Even though I am not a part of the community anymore, I have kept in contact with a few people who I call my friends.
XRPTwin:
What are your favourite 3 Crypto and why is that ? ? ?
Sandra:
I really don’t have three favourite crypto. Just Bitcoin and XRP. My mind is already tangled enough with everything else lol, I can’t keep up with all of the numbers! I am not a math person, and even when I was doing day trading, I always made sure with Mark I was doing the calculations right.
XRPTwin:
Have you been invested in Stock, Options, Trackers, Forwards, Futures, Wine, Cars or any other form of investment before Crypto and what is so hard / easy about it ? ? ?
Sandra:
Nope. Never. I thought about Futures, but then Crypto came along!
XRPTwin:
Motivation and Inspiration are key in your life. In time are those hard to find with everything that goes on in the world ? ? ?
Sandra:
You know what? Motivation and Inspiration are key in my life because I need it. I want it. It gives me positive feelings and helps me keep myself on track, and it’s something we ALL need in this world.
It’s been hard because
What do people want to hear about these days?
What are people thinking?
What are people doing?
The thing is, even with COVID, our lives don’t stop. Our thoughts don’t stop. Sure, it’s harder being able to do things, but if we turn that into something positive, then we can look at it that we get to spend quality time with our children, our families, the people we care about.
Everything that is going on in the world should be an eye opener, not an eye closer, if that makes sense? We can’t stop our lives because truth is, we still have to LIVE.
XRPTwin:
What can we expect of Sandra in the remainder of 2020 ? ? ?
Sandra:
Hmmm...I feel like I need to do another shift. I know, right? I’ve had some plans cooking on the back burner for quite some time now, and I hope to have that coming in the near future. But for now, I need to be here for my kids. I need to focus on them. As I mentioned earlier,
I am trying to stay current with the Coil Community, my writing, my videos.
Sometimes it gets overwhelming, so I slow down, but honestly. I can’t really say what’s going to happen. I live for each day and with the way 2020 has been so far, who knows what we can expect…?
XRPTwin:
What is a busy day for you ? ? ?
Sandra:
A busy day is every day.
Haha When you add in grocery shopping and laundry and cleaning, it’s busy. Even though the children are older, there’s still lots to do and get done.
XRPTwin:
The coolest thing that happened this year ? ? ?
Sandra:
The coolest thing that happened this year would have to be that I just got back from planning a last-minute fishing trip with Mark, the girls, and my parents.
THAT, was amazing!!!
We went to the Spanish River (northern Ontario west of Sudbury) and stayed at Vance’s Resort! A cottage all to ourselves, and no worries about having to wear our masks because there really was no one around. The people that were there stayed at their cottages, and their boats, and it was really just a great time! The weather was perfect, the boating and fishing was SO fun (although we only caught two that we were able to fry). But, I loved that I woke up every morning to sit on the deck and watch the still water, the birds chirping away. It was so quiet and peaceful. I didn’t have to think about anything out there, and I really wanted to stay longer, but we do have to come back to reality. I’m just glad we were able to get away for the few days!

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XRPTwin:
What do you expect from 2020 ? ? ?
Sandra:
I don’t really expect much from 2020. I’m curious to see what happens in September with school, that’s for sure. I just don’t know how things will turn out.
XRPTwin:
Does Corona help Crypto or slowdown ? ? ?
Sandra:
Well, it hasn’t really changed the price of XRP, so I don’t think it has made much of an impact. I’m really honestly not one to have the knowledge to answer that. SORRY!!

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WOW, I definitely liked that. Very extensive but a way to get a person better. Incredible what a person can go through but still be so positive in live. I have a lot of of respect for Sandra how she stands in life. I wish her, Mark and the 18 children only but the best, but I don't worry about that ! ! ! They are so good with each other, they can overcome everything, Thank you Sandra, amazing ! ! !
So if you are a Coil Subscriber, this interview is NOT over. Some more questions, deep questions, so if you would like to continue reading about Sandra, click here ! ! !