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Hello tutor!!!
Hello tutor!!!
What's wrong with being desperate? Being desperate worked for me every time.
Last I checked the few people I knew that were so terrified of being seen as desperate were also on the extreme end of narcissism. Apparently they lack sense of self therefore think being cool means being one dimensional character as portraited in media. But they also simultaneously think of others as extensions of themselves therefore somehow how they feel about someone must be a dictation of how that person should feel about them as well.
My writings feel pretty useless now but let's see 10 years later.
See you later.
Feel like I make fun of obsessive too often when my friend is one. Though I often thought about different groups of people when I made those jokes.
In reality, most of them are relatively normal. They can be very pleasant and considerate if having good upbringing without too much contradiction and NOT have a special interest in politics. With occasional judgemental comments but not in a funny way that I can appreciate.
Teenagers were superficial back then, and they are still superficial now. Sorry!
Ya think I don't know all their social tricks?
Every time their idols committed suicide (and that happened a lot, I wonder if it has anything to do with a culture that promotes idealizing people which then makes them lose sense of self which then makes them prone to develop personality disorders?), they screamed injustice and told everyone to respect the importance of mental health.
I thought then, if they learned one single fact every time things concerned them, in just a few years, they might be able to cure their friends' depression!
Of course they never did and probably never will.
Those same people are now think they are above everyone else on morality. The more rigid the rules, the better they are as humans!
They don't know that's exactly the sign of how they should not be trusted. For they operate themselves on moralizing defense. It's a defense. That means they use it to shield themselves from whatever they are feeling, and it has very little to do with what they actually learned from past experiences or what they plan to do for the future. Once they are done lecturing someone, the feeling is already over. So I guess there is nothing needed to be improved here!
That's why they both, are annoying, and never get better!
♫ Almost paradise brighter than the morning …. 😳
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On the other hand...
Certain people who split as kids continue to split as adults, as long as splitting keeps benefiting them. They only change from teenage activists to middle-aged activists. And they get media attention because they resonate with people's primitive defense of splitting. They think activism is effective when they gather as many people on their side as possible. But wonder why there is little to no progress, even regress.
That's because intellectualization kids grow up and hang out with their kind. Splitters only collect other splitters. And we know top priority of splitters is not finding solutions ever, but finding a villain to blame.
Intellectualization also doesn’t come out of nowhere. You can have a grasp of someone’s childhood based on what they have read. I always thought intellectualization is the best defense a child/teenager could do, as they don’t have enough autonomy for sublimation to work most of the time.