For seven days I heard a voice in my head
speak a truth
I didn’t know I had been seeking
louder
and
louder
until it had cleared away all the thoughts from my brain
until I could hear it echoing
deafening
off the bedroom walls
until I could only answer in reply
yes
yes!
YES!
until it covered me with joy
and my heart turned inside out
and all the parts of me found their way home
#bookofpoems #fragments #becoming
Did you know
there are people who have feelings?
Did you know
there are people who have feelings
that just show up
like they have a standing invitation to the feelings party?
Did you know
there are people who have feelings
that they would like to share
with other people who have feelings?
Did you know
there are people who have feelings that speak
and not
the things that burrow into your body and gnaw at the walls of your stomach until you wonder if you have cancer
or the things that slide along your bones and bind your flesh so tight you wonder if you are made of stone
Did you know
there are people who have feelings that move and dance and cry and sing
and not
the things that fold in and collapse into a black hole inside you, threatening to swallow the world if you open your mouth too wide
Did you know?
I didn’t know
I didn’t know
No one ever told me
#bookofpoems #becoming
In the mornings
in that moment of waking before the world becomes real
I would be filled with a feeling
like a delicious secret settled in my bones
and I'd think, it must have lost its way from a dream
and I'd wait for it to flee
as consciousness revealed its mistake
But I would wake
and it would wake with me
and it was real
and I was real
#bookofpoems #becoming #fragments
For seven days I heard
a voice in my head say,
“you don't have to be a woman”
louder
and
louder
until it had cleared away
all the thoughts from my brain
until I hear it echoing
deafening
off the bedroom walls
until I could only answer in reply
yes
yes!
YES!
until it covered me with joy
and my heart turned inside out
and all the parts of me
found their way home
#bookofpoems #becoming #fragments
These moments that overcome us
these crashing waves of fear and rage
let them tear away the weights that drag us down
So we can rise up! and breathe
These moments that overcome us
these churning waters of despair
let them toss our weary bodies together
So we can find the ones who’ll hold us dear
These moments that overcome us
these salty gales of shame
let them whip the blinders from our eyes
So we can see the truth of all there is
These moments that overcome us
these rising tides of doubt
let them wash away the stain of other people's words
So we can know just who we are
These moments that overcome us
this dragging undertow of grief
let it teach us to swim this bitter sea
So we can lead the way to shore
#bookofpoems #revolution #becoming
What am I writing
Who am I writing for
Who am I
I want to write fire
that lights up souls
and burns down worlds
Instead I am writing loaves of bread
and flowers
Like a woman tending her hearth
But I am not a woman
I am not a woman
#bookofpoems #pandemic #becoming
This is a story about your birth. You are 4 and tomorrow I will be 41 years old. It has taken me this long to find it.
Before you were born we were given a baby journal. A little blank book to be filled with words about the first 4 years of your life, starting with the day you were born.
When you were new, I’d open the book with pen in hand, ready to fill it with the tender and sweet words I knew were meant to be written there. But the words I had were only coarse and awkward, and they strangled in my throat and withered at the tip of my pen. So the pages remained blank, a question waiting to be answered.
I am still a little resentful of this book – its presumption that I should so easily find a story of tender and sweet words, as if the work of being born is not coarse and awkward and terrible, and filled with all kinds of stories.
The day of your birth was filled with stories. A maelstrom of words filling the rooms where you came into life, and very few I think, were tender and sweet. In all of this somewhere is your story, but it is so wound up in my story that I can’t tell which parts belong to me, and which belong to you. I try to find the individual threads and tease them apart, but when I pull on one the whole thing unravels, words falling into my lap in a pile without shape or meaning.
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I will grow my roots through the suffering earth
and join with others in the darkness
We will grow our branches up
into the joyful sky
And turn our leaves to face the sun
It will not be enough
to lift up the world
But it will be
enough
#bookofpoems #becoming
In the past I was made
of chaos and darkness
Held together by stories
that were not my own
Until I found the words
That spoke me into being
For years I searched,
for what made me
Along the way I collected
all the detritus
bits and bobs
garbage and treasure
that makes people
And when I finally became
I found
I was already full
of humanity
#becoming #bookofpoems
A stone in my heart
cracked open
into me
#becoming #bookofpoems