“I have never felt confident I could #trust another person to be the other parent. I’m not sure I could be a competent parent because of what I’ve been through.”

“But as for your question—“If I accept as a foregone conclusion that I am only a burden to my partner, and that I can’t #trust him to look out for his own well-being and assume he’ll never break up with me even if he wanted to, isn’t it better that I end this now?”—my answer is No. I think you can and should talk to your fiancé about your fears, that you deserve all the support you need, and that you should take him at his word when he says he wants to be with you. You are not a problem. You’re his partner.”