Talking about Korean, my crush looks exactly like male leads from shoujo. So it's not actually Korean but I think they are just nearby based on my limited geography education. Never liked American superheroes anyway. They look just like every dude coming out from gym with zero emotional depth.
The Korean make a lot of moving songs out there.
Only listen to romantic songs very recently because as a teenager, my feelings were more in common with hip hop songs with desire to burn cities and destroy neighborhoods.
Rationalization is largely based on cultural norms. If you remove rationalization, most people suddenly can't cope anymore. But since I never bought into social norms in the first place, when people try to rationalize to help me with my emotional problems, I just feel annoyed, even though I know they have good intentions. So understanding me probably just means being fine with me being miserable.
There is a group of people I wanted so badly for the lack of doing their own homework and trying to leech off their classmate unsuccessfully will one day bite them in the ass. And I now can contently say they will never make it a superpower to find a proper tutor like me!
People who wanted to steal your homework are now socialists and would like you to be kind to everyone.
Although I did go to competitions so I could ditch gym classes as much as I wanted. That's why in college I kept failing at gym or was too scared to face the equipment. I skipped it 12 years previously and they asked me to practice like a normal person.
People say “Girls who care about looks are shallow, beauty is on the inside.” and think it's profound and mature. But they are as stupid as people who say “Girls shouldn't be ambitious and be more domestic.” Just moralization all the way packed in educated language.
Go to gifted schools and you know the majority of them are there for their parents and have little to no interest in the subjects or just have any interests at all. That's why they have no qualms about cheating on tests and hating people who do actual work. You could still count that as having ambitions and life goals. But for whom? Also kids with above intelligence also often have advanced social awareness and use it to their advantage. Generally it means denying natural but uncool urges, and masquerading their performative kindness and empathy or whatever that's hip presently.
Can't have a minute of peace with people thinking one gender being pressured on appearance is bad while the other gender being pressured on ambition is advantageous. Have you seen a bunch of successful but miserable narcissistically disordered people? When you lack a core sense of self, ambition or life goals are just varieties of make-up products.