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Good morning. And good luck socializing. I already talked to 2 people this month. One of them is not even my mom.
Good morning. And good luck socializing. I already talked to 2 people this month. One of them is not even my mom.
Hhe. See you later.
There was a documentary about human trafficking a few years back.
A group of people from rural areas were promised good jobs overseas. Once they were out of the country, they were forced into a labor camp to do online scams to people from their own country, because they understood the language. Along with other people from different countries. They did that “job” for an amount of time. Then found a way to escape, despite a great possibility of getting caught and killed. When interviewed, they said, it was the mental cost of causing harms to other people that they had to get out.
But why didn't they try to escape from day 1, doing the right thing and scam no one? Because that's not realistic.
One thing that moralizers don't know or try not to understand is, ethical decisions often come after weighing the pros and cons of not doing it.
Moralizers are so damaging to the culture because instead of speaking out to your friends and loved ones that you're messed up, you are told that your experiences are isolated and against what normal people should do. Now with that unspeakable shame, you can reject other people and become more narcissistic over time or even worse, moralize other people back.
I actually don't mind people call it superpower or something in that vein. As I wouldn't have accidentally learned psychoanalysis without the autism combined with literature. It's the denial of full human traits in a person that's annoying.
Of course activists are too narcissistic to ever experience meaningful relationships to know that to grow as a person, you especially don't want constant meaningless validations. The more you idealize a person than they actually are, the more you will punish them when they can't deliver to your expectations.
Now you are all happy with your instant gratification of being praised as having strong sense of justice without having bad ideology, and hyperempathy but like without hate ever.
But one day you will have to leave the computer, get out of the house, and realize, to have a list of dignity is one thing, and to do it is another. What would you do if you can't be the dignified person you aspire to be?
A friend who is just about aware of their own badness will have the capacity for you to own your mistakes and move on. But when you think your normal, human badness is unacceptable because the false self of autism and people around tell you you have to be a justice warrior without selfishness, what you would be more likely to do is deny your own mistakes. Then go on social media preaching for totally different causes as a morally dignified person so the guilt can go away.
Obsessive can sometimes come up with good jokes, then go to the opposite direction of being cool to explain it was a joke, out of fear someone wouldn't get it therefore wouldn't think of them as good bois anymore.
Moral masochists should not be allowed to make jokes. Their jokes never land. And their attempt to be both funny and arrogant and morally upright is just difficult to watch.
The thing about violin is, as a beginner practitioner, you can do much more damage to your sibling than other instruments.
Especially when said sibling up till 2 am doing homework, class starts at 7 am, and at 5 am when you do your daily practice, they just want the pain to be over.
Like, “human nature” is definitely a thing. But whenever someone uses that word unironically, it often turns out they treat other people badly and/or have a shady business.
I also have a snowman.
You can play with my toys if you let me borrow your books.