They might even love it more when you reject them. Then they will have the chance to demonstrate the mirroring skill and get back the approval again. The volatility of the situation makes their inner splitting an appropriate response. Because they split all the time.
I know there is a learning curve for everyone, but being patient with borderline is not exactly the correct move.
See, unlike narcissism, where after they devalue you, it’s just arrogant and dismissive.
Borderline has this push-pull dynamic where after reject them, they will try to mirror and idealize you again to gain back approval, it doesn’t mean that they learn anything. They can pretend to be in good behavior. When it is secured, they will behave poorly again. It’s very common dynamic in domestic abuse. This dynamic is way worse than narcissism alone.
Hey tutor. You should do podcast.
Or at least record yourself as private materials. Maybe pack it with some images of yourself as well.
I’m listening to the FT News. People with horrible voices should not be allowed to be podcast hosts.
People can have moving love stories without love tragedies. Love tragedies require too many coincidences which is super unrealistic.
I always think Winter Sonata used cheap plots with the whole cancer thing for sentimental purposes. So unnecessary.
I solved another case. Hehe.
I think for this personality, it would be a mistake that we look at their actual argument about a political situation. We should see it as a part of the public broadcast to respond to the actual trigger of shame in their own personal life.
This is splitting.
The fake centrism was actually very easy. Everyone can do it with minor practice in a day. Question is why they don't bother to be fake now? Because it's not like getting any financial or reputational support from online audience.
Hope you have a fun working day. I'm going to sleep now. See you again soon.