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Hey tutor. How you doing?
Hey tutor. How you doing?
Actually, I was very well-liked by teachers. I got good grades and never took offense during feedback time, which turned out to be not that common. So teachers found working with me super pleasant.
I guess, except, the one that I told that her course was as boring as her personality in front of the class.
In my defense, it was really boring. It was about hacking culture. And I was thinking, how would this help me get a job? And I was already in my second year!
Her PhD was totally unnecessary.
Actually, that was a joke. I don’t even want that couple to go there. Those works, even if up for grab, often pay super slow. Like 6 months to a year after finishing. I prefer cash right away.
See you again tomorrow, Marten.
I think they are throwing a party in the yard. Your yard.
Those skills were necessary for me to find the best person in the whole universe. Because I deserve only the best.
I only dealt with quiet borerline. Also deflated/vulnerable narcissism, not outward arrogance. Because I was more challenged by difficult cases. So my experience was less reputational or financial ruin for myself. In fact, I think they were more of a victim with my confrontation. The spirals always started after me describing my innocent and groundbreaking observation. That applied for my teenage nemesis as well.
These people often have more control of themselves. They actually look super normal. They know something is wrong with them so they hide it. I don't think they feel guilt as much that they know what behavior would be unacceptable socially, therefore would be disadvantageous for them. Even if they go to professionals for help, I don't think many professionals would be able to recognize their problems after interacting with them for years.
Some people say that quiet type is actually way worse because you don't know until very later, where you have mortgage and family and finance tied up with them. Unlike the off-putting volatile type where you can see it in a week.
This is also another reason you need a lawyer to deal with them.
I made a mistake out of curiosity to see how the fake 19 y.o thing went. Now I feel secondhand embarrassment for anyone remotely involved. I already felt it for you so you won't have to.
The merciful way is to let them hit rock bottom.