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And it is a test too. Because if someone look down on you simply because you express enthusiasm and investment then that’s narcissism for they see every relationship as binary winner-loser. And when you express slight disagreement but overall politely inviting to further discussion and they get angry over that then that’s borderline. So she thinks she has the upper hand because the other person has zero defense but they are the one to get correct answer about who she is as a person with a simple test here.

So funny I just saw a story of a girl publicly humiliating a guy for DMing her to discuss her thesis after seeing her at the museum. Because I did the same thing as the guy did and it worked well for me. Highly recommend for everyone else to do that. Stupid girl thinks she is out of his league because he is more enthusiastic than the usual avoidant douche men then that's really her narcissistic problem.

Hello Marten.

*special kindness*

I don't want generic kindness where the person is nice/polite/pleasant/helpful to everyone.

No. I want special treatment. Me on top of everyone in the pyramid. Me getting a solid treat. And all other people are fighting for scraps.

See, this is why I was looking for a Chemistry tutor with emotional understanding and kindness. Because I was very familiar with educated pricks. Education, no matter how high it is, is the bare minimum.

Sometimes, people (her social circle) were too stupid, my sister would tag me under the comment section so I would insult them for her. I mean, it was fun at first. But I got annoyed after a while and told her she needed to learn to insult people herself.

“Oh no! My job is gone! Now my entire self-worth is collapsed! I need to pivot to something else to feel special again! Something that others definitely can’t replicate! Like biology!”

“My main concern is not a loss of income that would affect myself and loved ones. My concern is acquiring a new type of status now that my jobs don’t grant me one anymore!”

“Now my husband is a programmer and AI takes his job too. And he doesn’t have biology to fall back so I guess his status is zero.”

Definitely sounds like the logic of someone with a girlfriend. Or ever received a shred of respect from women (I wouldn’t blame them). Or have any hobbies they enjoy. Or do a job for the meaning of it.

Educated prick.

The narcissistic people always have a lot to say. They can’t just be upfront “I’m better than you”. That would cause backlash. So they have to employ varieties of “science” and “rationality” to demonstrate they are humble but better than you.

I said that I don’t hate all obsessive because normal obsessive are often not that annoying. And in educated circle, they tend to be better behaved than me because the education system seems to work on them. The annoying ones are rarely just obsessive. They are obsessiveness combined with narcissism. And their rigid binary rules comes with hierarchy of self importance. They don’t see jobs as jobs. They have to have female-coded jobs and male-coded jobs so they can compare between both genders and jobs at the same time. It’s pretty clear what they imply when the polite words and the fake concern is stripped away. Normal obsessive with less narcissism don’t need to overthink about that, when gender superior or prestige are not their priority. Because you only need defense when those things threaten your self esteem.

Biore is such a garbage brand that the 2 times I used their products, it didn't miss any of those chances to cause problems.