viewWhat is it like to be in boarding school, though? Cause my junior high was about 5km from my house. Eta was in the center part of the town, so much closer. I was in the rural part. I often had my lunch right in class with a food box my mom packed and soy milk. And I rode my bike to school every day.
viewSo every time shame arises, they moved the goalposts to a moral issue or a social responsibility because they think that's where they can win. Integrity.
See, that's why I hated them and avoided them. Can't believe you last that long among obsessive. Kind of a superpower.
viewI can also keep doing something for educational purposes. But never for popularity. I get zero good feeling off of it, plus the annoyance dealing with people.
viewThe funny thing was, that moderator secretly removed members for months and no one knew. Cause she removed like two people every few days. But book selling wasn't very good at that point so I felt nothing. I only cared about conversion. When it doesn't convert or not enough after a certain amount of effort, I drop.
viewHello Marten. My fish cake sandwich was pretty good.
viewOkay I had to log out to prevent myself from downvoting everyone all the time.
viewI didn’t create the group myself, so it was not much of my problem. Also I already closed that group.
viewHave to say I admire your restraint towards these people. Because the worst I had was just that one of the moderators silently removed members from the fan group. And someone else was upset I didn’t read their mind that when they showed my work to their local library, they expected something in return. Then the other 2 fought publicly. I let them 4 remove themselves and each other, and barely did anything the whole time.
viewHow come these people walk around and not bump into trouble created by themselves every two seconds?
viewIdiot moralized the first time because he couldn’t sit with the feeling of incompetence.
Idiot moralized the second time because he couldn’t sit with the feeling of rejection.
Like a case study for psychological distortion and narrative bending in real time.