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I do like hoodies and color black though. Or anything that looks comfy. All my pants are short. So in the autumn and winter, I would just buy very high knitted socks.
I do like hoodies and color black though. Or anything that looks comfy. All my pants are short. So in the autumn and winter, I would just buy very high knitted socks.
Borderline stereotypes checklist: CEO: ✅99% profit ✅mastermind ✅image chaser dev: ✅ hoodie ✅clueless nerd ✅privacy activist Their heads will explode when hoodie devs build shady businesses without a CEO title.
How are you today? Today was quite boring. I did listen to some information on the neighbor's war. I didn't notice much about what's happening here because last I read local newspapers, which was many years ago, it was very bland. But I watched the news with my parents at home recently, so now I know a thing or two.
See you again tomorrow.
Contrary to what many therapists think, programmers fixing bugs is not being obsessive. Or that fixing bugs can just make one boring. Programmers don't have a relationship with the bugs. Except annoyance.
To be obsessive, you have to be relational, and it has to be a defense. For example, when you like a handsome boy, and you are conditioned by your parents and society that having a libido makes you classless. To resist the handsome boy, you say “I should like someone for their mind, not for their look!”. To resist your libido, you say “If I do this, I would be like those girls who throw themselves at boys instead of getting good grades.”
And that's what kills your libido, not the bugs.
Everyone wants to know what's the deal with me. But my dad is too awkward, so he asks my mom. My mom has more confidence to ask me personal questions. But since I'm 29, she can't ask me normally and expect me to just answer. For I already learned to talk back since 10. So she would try to adopt young people's lingo to feel more relevant. Mostly come from Korean and Chinese romance dramas. Sometimes from the young nurses at work. Only for me to roll my eyes rapidly.
I’m still tired from all the moving from city to city yesterday.
Nah. The stereotypes don't work and constantly bite them. They just get very mad and offended when others don't live up to the stereotypes in their heads for some reason.
Okay, the AC in my room is quite weak. I didn't know 26°C was much colder.
Borderline (Mel, i/o, fat dude) often brags about how they hold the ultimate secret key to the success of dating and lasting relationships. While many of us losers can't find a date in years, let alone transform it to real™.
Some of them already dated > 100 people (i/o, fat dude). Some even do it when consistently in debt (fat dude). Some can keep a marriage for decades with attention and care are just fringe benefits (mel).
The secret is very simple. Just like the opposite sex for their sex (all 3 said on multiple occasions). And they mean, just their sex, as a noun. For example “I like you because you are a man”. Because if you like them for the attention, sex (as a verb), stability or care, you don’t like them for who they are. Since those are all disciplined traits and not innate. That would exclude me. Because I can definitely see myself liking it for the sex (verb). Also, I always thought, the other person would feel even more majestic when I hate their entire sex (noun) but only like them.
Coincidentally, i/o often see people as stereotypes and it’s working for him. While mel thinks not taking shower regularly is a masculine trait and one can achieve progressiveness by integrating a correct amount of femininity with a correct amount of masculinity.