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Hallo Tutor.
Hallo Tutor.
Woke up from my nap, still hate everyone.
Here you can't be a politician or have a place in the military if you are religious.
But you can believe your dead ancestors follow you around and tell you to cater generous feasts a few times per year.
When girls do the whole “kill them with kindness” thing, they are not stupidly masochistic, they know they need to withdraw the social favour deposit later. People choose the best deal for themselves. Practical and efficient people get a bad rap for stating clear terms of use for their time and money or helpful gestures, therefore make almost everyone else uncomfortable because they look mean. But we know you often get the best deals in ambiguity.
Diagnosed BPD ratio is girls:boys=3:1, NPD ratio is girls:boys=1:3. And no one dares to draw conclusions in public.
While borderline girls (and boys who want to be girls) are bragging about their care and empathy against cruelty among people. Borderline boys (and girls want to be boys) are bragging about their integrity against cruelty among nations.
Apparently it all goes back to the whimsy of your teenage where girls are conditioned to be nurtured and boys are conditioned to be courageous. But since none of those traits are learned through experiences but rather as a mental shortcut to paradise of love and worthiness, they decide to deny all the contradiction.
In short, they all deny their own aggression. But with different outfits to be more socially desirable. As we know many of them do take financial favors from their “relationships”.
I'm hungry.
Many people calling at 3am for minor issues painfully realize doctors don’t go into their profession to save lives.
Those boys who talk about war and stuff (they don't talk much about domestic issues because it's too feminine) should know that every time they spell out self-righteous ideology/philosophy that sounds righteous but far from reality out of their own righteousness and not lack of education, they look both stupid and narcissistic.
You know what parents do to protect girls? They tell them not to go out late alone. Well there are a bunch of other things too, but I don't drink or drive so that's hardly anyone's concern. You can talk all day about girls having all the right to wear revealing clothes in the middle of the night on the street. That does not reflect reality and you know it.
Freud said, “Whoever loves becomes humble. Those who love have so to speak pawned a part of their narcissism”. It doesn't mean that you pretend you are lesser than others. It means that when you love someone, you will need to think about their differences, and to see them as normal human with fear and weakness. You therefore have more understanding of the human condition. Thinking of normal working people as heroes who need to fight for democracy or whatever vague values you have that hardly affect them in real life and might make them lose a limb or two is the opposite of that. Especially when you yourself never stand up to a bully or have the gut to tell your friends to stop cheating.
Good morning tutor.
Technically it was a moonlight walk. Because normally I walk at 5pm. But today I had to go shopping first.