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Can I sing Don’t Go now? The situation doesn’t apply. But the mood does.
Can I sing Don’t Go now? The situation doesn’t apply. But the mood does.
I’m doing color palette today.
I'm not actually in trouble. But I really really hate paperwork.
Talking to a lawyer is scary. I don't know if I should act like someone in trouble or as the younger sister of her childhood friend.
Just used all my effort to listen to the Nobel Peace Prize winner through all the whining. It was very difficult. If anything worse than a badly managed government, it is someone with a crying voice, idealizing their parents publicly in their 60s. Unsusprisingly, she also called for other countries to beat up her own to save it. Because I've already seen this plot elsewhere before.
Hello handsome boy. I know what you will do next week so good luck and have fun socializing.
Today I heard Matt Walsh called some people ungrateful brats because they didn't say thank-you. So that was funny.
I know it doesn't make sense logically for any healthy person. But yes, they hate you more when you help them. Freudianly, there are very few adaptive defense mechanism. So-called “rationalists” don’t even know that their defense – rationalization – is actually an immature one.
Adaptive:
Humor – which many comedians use.
Sublimation – we did more homework.
That’s it.
Some people say altruism. But altruism is not a defense. If it’s to improve the situation, it could be sublimation. If it's to be on the right side, it could be splitting. If it is to be righteous, it could be narcissism.
So the common logic is, if you had a hard time with integration or if you was bullied and understand hardship, wouldn't you be more positive when you finally receive help?
If you chose narcissism in adolescent years, it’s not just “I’m better than my bully”. But also, “I will never be desperate for love”, “Dependent on others is weak”, ... Not because you are completely independent in reality. But that means you can’t admit when you are not. So you hate people who remind you of your dependency.
When you thank a stranger for helping you cross the street, it is to be polite. When you thank the open source community, it is to belong. But when you thank a family member or a friend, it is dependency.
Statistically, you have way way more chance of the underdogs being the bad guys than otherwise.
I kept one copy of the book. The rest of the book box was sent to my parents so I can gift it to my niece and friends later.
Remember when I said, I often did more homework when I was crying? It started in junior high.
And then, there was something else besides being bullied that happened in junior high? And that I couldn’t write about it ever?
It’s because I can only write publicly about things using materials in public domain. I can also overshare about myself because I consent to how much of it. But I can’t talk about other people’s stories for their privacy.
I came up with a new theory about you today. But I won't say it out loud ever. Because you will tell me anyway.