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Okay I charge my Kindle twice a year. This is the second time this year. That’s for when the electricity is out.

I would like to point out that I made the post about communally narcissistic turns powerfully narcissistic a few hours before the socialist mayor’s race speech, just to show how spot on I am all the time.

I actually already did the photo shoot yesterday, because my rescheduled day falls on an upcoming typhoon. Anyway it's supposed to hit the mainland on November 6th at night, and on November 7th. I hope it will be over by November 8th and 9th, but please be careful.

No. The vulnerable can't write crap. I mean, they can recycle something from folk wisdom or moralize some cliche and think that makes them so deep. And that's why it's narcissism. They can't look inward and accept things to just be ordinary. The “vulnerable” wisdom will just be borrowed somewhere.

People really don't understand narcissism when they categorize it into different types like grandiose, vulnerable, communal,…

No it's a defense when you can't look into your (perceived) weakness or faults, therefore you rewrite narrative so that you don't have too.

If you were born rich or high IQ, you use status, look, popularity or achievement as metrics because it's believable and because you already have them.

If your parents are strict or that you learn to be people pleasing, it's easier to be a collectivist where you feel superior on your kindness, tacts and empathy. You already have strangers react positively to those behavior so that's believable and achievable to you. But that's not real kindness or empathy, that's why I mentioned “strangers”. Because helping someone to carry groceries is totally different from having the ability to admit mistakes to yourself or to someone close.

If you were born a normal person with average IQ but you like to read books and you like to write. You are also an art lover. You might think that you are a more open, authentic or vulnerable in a good way. You might even think that you are a victim of toxic masculinity. Many people assume that you are, in fact, deeper, than say, a blunt person who just says what they think. And this is believable because feminists say that boys are oppressed for the vulnerability.

So in general, you will use the resource that you have in disposal to be superior. The quicker the easier of the resource that you have it's more likely that you will use it over other resources. So you would think, once the communal ones get power and money, they will move to the more typical type of narcissim. Power, status, money. Because now, people pleasing requires more efforts than simply showing the status you already have.

Good morning Marten.

Hello tutor.

They are very stupid. Every time their idols complain that they feel depressed, they would say something like “What are you talking about? There are millions of people who love you!”. As if having complete strangers who know you vaguely calling you beautiful and talented will cure all your other problems.

Can't believe my favorite shorts got torn out after seven years. Would have lasted longer if I hadn't just sit on rough concrete.

Changed my booking successfully. Gonna do it another day.