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Two nice ladies just voluntarily guided me across the street. Now I need someone to tell me what vibe do I usually give out?
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I liked In Return album by ODESZA since college as well. I think today is the right weather for it.
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A high-functioning narcissistic boy would have the same interpretation as a low-social-skills narcissistic boy. Because they can't help themselves not doing that. It's impossible that one is not better than the other. Except they also learn some more of the fake “theory of mind”, or “tacts”.
Like, “girls want to be chased and desired”. – Rule 1
Or, “girls want to hear compliments on personalities not looks” – Rule 2
Rule 3 ...
So you don't hear them saying out loud that “You are crazy about me, the 1 am text is the proof of that!” Because that will contradict rule 1. Which makes you think everything goes well, and they are respectful to you. But it's not. Which is why it takes a longer time to see their pattern. But they always out themselves.
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So some people got angry because they empathized with the boy and thought the girl was extremely hostile when he showed interest. Which is why they deserve to get zero in literature.
When did he show interest? At all?
When he said “lol, first text back at 1 AM? I like your style.”, there are two interpretations.
- It’s a simple observation with no hidden meaning. Then he is stupid. He can just say “you wake up at 7 AM” and it would be the same. Except “lol” next to it is a comment on the casual habit of a stranger. Which makes him even stupider.
- It is an implication that she shows interest and he likes that she shows it. Many people think this is a case and consider it a good thing. Well, good for him. Not for her. He didn’t show any vulnerability or his own thinking about her. He risks nothing in here. Risking would be like “Thanks for texting back quickly.” or “I like your hair.” he transferred the risk of rejection to her by putting her in this position of showing her interest to him first. Then, and only then, he approved her enthusiasm with “I like your style”.
At best you have a clueless boy with no conversation skills in your relationship. But it’s more likely that you get a narcissistic boy who thinks he has the upper hand in the relationship.
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Talking about being enthusiastic. I can't even do the legal registration of my work stuff with the new address or the current one. So moving doesn't help. And I will have to do it another way. But I still want to move soon anyway. Because I really want to live with a boy.
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Attentive people can't even possibly make that mistake, even without trying to avoid it. Because they are already familiar with being uncertain about what others want, and waiting for confirmation. Making assumptions is even more inconvenient.
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Found this exchange on twitter and people side with the dude for some reason.
I used Yahoo Messenger as a teenager, so there were many people who knew me at school but were not in my friend circle, but who wanted to talk to me. I’m just happy I don’t talk to stupid people anymore.
This is a likely correct interpretation. Correct on the boy’s intention. Incorrect on psychology because these people can’t imagine a mutual relationship. They think anyone who is more enthusiastic is a loser. Therefore, mathematically, there is always at least one loser in any given relationship. And they even invent “humble-desperate”. Yeah, that’s called low self-esteem but pretend you’re fine with people looking down on you.
Someone has a correct reading on the girl.
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Why is it Bitcoin bros always have some trouble with the bank? Even though they are always extra careful and trust no one. And not even trouble because of using bitcoin. But something to do with their lifestyles.
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I didn't even have to pay the customs fee for this.
