Saw some very ugly fake nails today. Which, reminded me, people told me I have beautiful hands.
Probably because I played keyboard since age 4 to age 7. I was also an important member of the elementary melodica band. Then age 8 came and teachers told my mom I should not waste my time on art or gym anymore.
I can still play keyboard now if someone gives me one. But only in C major.
“Oh no, I only act narcissistic and borderline online because strangers are mean, and with my coworkers because they are abusive! Also I have a loveless marriage so that doesn't count.”
But your personalities are not what you imagine to be. Your defenses are your personalities. And your defenses will be shaped by your environment. That's why disordered parents produce disordered children, not because of genetics.
As adults, you are in charge of your personalities. That means, the people you choose to meet. The jobs you choose to leave behind. The online arguments you decide not to take part in.
So the stereotype is that therapists are depressive people. And maybe they are, with some percentage in part of their personalities. But like how much? I RARELY see anyone of them with depressive dominant. The majority is narcissistic in boys and borderline in girls.
In fact, I've seen a total of 2 people who are actually dominantly depressive. And just one of them is a therapist. And the other one works with computers and stuff.
My handwriting is at 4th grade at best and I still don't have a signature.
The problem with quotes is that it's not your original thoughts and everyone can look deep and empathetic with a vague statement. If you don't expand your ideas, how can I be sure you are not actually stupid?
“Butttt I'm a respectable person and I have a reputation to maintain!!!”
So you don't want to risk your ideas being ridiculed but you are okay acting as if you have a better moral view in public. This is fine and all. But think about that the next time you complain the dating market is getting worse and the modern world is more superficial than in the past. Is that the reality or is that what happens to you?
The only people who feel comfortable with that behavior are other narcissistic people. Because they don't really care about what you think, only the association that makes them feel superior.
I still hate classical.
My mom drove my sister an hour to the violin class every weekend and an hour back. But I couldn't go to the drawing class. Because the one art teacher in town was also a pedophile.
The one advantage an average boy has over me is the ability to carry heavy groceries. And I don't even count it as an advantage because when others offer to carry heavy stuff for me, I just let them.
Yes I do have a trustable face.
Why is it so hard to just admit gender roles are working for you? I, for once, can be as intrusive as one can be, and will never be a predator. Look at me, I'm harmless!!!
Not that I will use that advantage to actually do something. But I have the potential to, if I want to. But if I don't want other people to force gender roles I don't want onto me, the logical thing for me is not to do it to them. It's very simple. Girls all know they have the advantage in case of finance trouble or war. Either you admit it and have more compassion for others who don't even have a choice. Or you deny it out of shame for your dignified reputation and blame boys further that they are not honourable enough.
It's often the people who deny they have potential to cause harm who do the most damage.