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With Nonmonetized Together, I have given everybody on the Internet the privilege to share ideas outside of the political context. Sure, a lot of people may have turned down this opportunity, but Nonmonetized Together allowed them the ability to make that choice.

But in order for me to manage an online space that functions as an alternative to mainstream politics, I need to have enough privilege that I don’t need to rely on the political system to survive. This way, I can use this privilege to designate an online space where I can then redistribute the privilege to people who wouldn’t have access to it otherwise.

I feel like I’m starting to reach a point in my life where I don’t have that level of privilege. For this reason, I will close Nonmonetized Together until I am successful enough to be able to re-disconnect myself from the current power structure. I might never get to this point, but if I do, I promise I’ll bring the publication back. Privileged people have no place in mainstream politics.

This means that I will stop publishing articles to Nonmonetized Together. All comment sections on Nonmonetized Together articles will be closed. I’m not sure if I will stop writing articles on Medium outside of Nonmonetized Together, but I do know that there is less incentive for me to do that now.

This article is also available at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/im-closing-nonmonetized-together-for-the-time-being-23e21ae2962d.

#Power #AlternativePolitics #Society #Blogging

This article can also be viewed at https://medium.com/@non-monetized_together/i-challenge-the-social-hierarchy-by-writing-about-ordinary-people-3cefb178f5e4.

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A depressed man struggling to find a job. A Redditor eager to learn how to be supportive to their gay coworker. A group of music enthusiasts fighting over racial issues. These are all-too-familiar experiences for many people, but the mainstream media won’t publish any stories about them because the people involved aren’t important (by the media’s standards).

These barriers don’t exist on Nonmonetized Together. By writing stories about ordinary people I see on the Internet, I challenge social hierarchies and show people that these stories can be just as important as the issues that involve major politicians, tech CEOs, and movie stars.

The divide between public visibility and invisibility is consistently prevalent in our society. In sociology, for example, a perspective has to come from an academic to be taken seriously. Furthermore, Wikipedia has guidelines against including information from “non-notable” people.

And what about the mainstream media? Journalists need to report stories that impact ordinary people. How can this be achieved without giving people a voice? What the mainstream media will almost always do is to describe ordinary people as an intangible crowd. This could mean making reference to trending hashtags, or featuring statements from activist organizations, or anything else that paints ordinary people’s experiences as belonging to a collective.

But you may be thinking, I’ve seen completely unknown people get interviewed on the news. And I would say, yes, but the examples you’re thinking of probably fall into one of two categories. Ordinary people sometimes get interviewed when they represent a large collective group (like the transgender community, for instance) or when they play a small role in a big news story.

My point is, there aren’t enough articles where ordinary people represent nobody but themselves. They aren’t the stars of their own story. This is restricted to celebrities like Tom Brady or Selena Gomez. I’m not only basing this off my own experiences, but off of the surprised reactions I get from other people online when I write an article about people who usually don’t get heard. This reveals that the media’s ivory tower is so high up that its workers can’t even make out individual faces from a crowd. How can we expect them to make out a narrative?

And this is how Nonmonetized Together is different than the mainstream media. In the past, I have been guilty of using the term “the masses” to refer to ordinary people. I will no longer do that. Nonmonetized Together is a tool that publicly invisible could use to empower their voices, so I will treat them as individuals, not crowds.

This is not only a goal of Nonmonetized Together, but also one of the purposes that Medium was built on. While giving a platform to the unknown is a step in the right direction, there’s still more that can be done. Most Medium bloggers still don’t write stories about ordinary people unless that ordinary person is themselves or a member of their family.

There’s so much value in taking something you’ve seen from an online rando and bringing it into a different context, or adding further information, or showing what you have learned from it. Writers do this all the time with the rich and powerful. If we want society to give low-status people the strength and agency they deserve, writers must write stories about these people too, and explain why they matter.

My drive to ignore social status is rooted in my Catholic upbringing. If there is one Catholic value that made an impact on me, it’s that, and I don’t think it’s ever going to go away. The concept of treating people differently based off their social status creates a very instinctual feeling of disgust inside of me. It feels like I’m treating someone as if they were a different species.

#Power #Media #Society #SocialStatus #SocialJustice

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With music audiences being more fragmented than ever, some of you may be wondering if it’s possible for there to be any new music superstars anymore. 

I was curious about this as well, so I decided to visit chartmasters.org to find the most-subscribed musicians on Spotify and then only include musicians who first gained mainstream success no earlier than 2020. Here are the results, as of August 11, 2024:

1. Olivia Rodrigo — 38.3 million followers (29th overall)

2. Junior H — 17.8 million (109th overall)

3. Bizarrap — 15.9 million (127th overall)

4. Peso Pluma — 15.2 million (135th overall)

5. Grupo Firme — 13.0 million (163rd overall)

6. Mahalini — 12.9 million (165th overall)

7. Feid — 12.7 million (167th overall)

8. Carín León — 12.2 million (176th overall)

9. ENHYPEN — 9.4 million (277th overall)

10. Santa Fe Klan — 9.2 million (283th overall)

Article also available at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/do-we-even-have-new-music-superstars-anymore-639cb11cecd7.

#Music #Trends #Spotify #Decadeology #Culture

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You can also read this at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/noticing-a-bias-against-women-fd9363e3304d

I have an example of a time I noticed a bias I had against women. I’m sharing this anecdote so you can see if you have this bias too and take steps to correct it.

Basically, when I write an article, I spend a lot of time imagining how people will respond to it. I suppose this is common among writers. Sometimes I imagine getting hate comments from people who use faulty reasoning. I do this so I can prepare a response in case this does happen.

Well, I noticed that every time I did this, I imagined the comment coming from a woman. You’d think I would notice this immediately but I didn’t, not right away, because the imaginary comment’s gender was deep in the background of my mind. Eventually I realized my bias and started taking steps to imagine these comments coming from other people.

#Feminism #Anecdote #SelfGrowth #Bias

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This article can also be viewed at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/not-all-autistic-students-hate-being-in-quiet-empty-rooms-e68b95a95f68.

I know that there may be some good intentions among some of the activists who are trying to ban quiet rooms in schools. Which is why I’m writing this article to let them know that some autistic people actually find these rooms helpful.

Quiet rooms are soundproof, empty rooms that are used to help calm autistic students when they have a meltdown. While this concept might sound anxiety-provoking to non-autistics and some autistic people, these rooms can be beneficial to people on the autism spectrum who have to deal with sensory overload.

What is sensory overload? This is a term used to describe when someone receives more sensory information than their mind can process, sending their mind into a panic mode. The autistic population are much more likely to experience this than other people.

Because of this, quiet rooms are sometimes used whenever an autistic student experiences a meltdown. Sensory overload is a specifically neurodivergent experience, so I am worried that it’s being left out of the autism rights narrative for not being relatable enough to neurotypicals.

Not all autistic students find these rooms useful. Some even find it traumatic, as seen in the news article link above. But they work for some of us. I was reminded of this when reading Jim Irion’s article “A Conflict of Sensory Overload Proportions,” where he explains how quiet rooms could help him deal with his sensory overload. Reading this reminded me of when I was in school. These rooms successfully calmed me down too. Both Jim and I are autistic.

I’m not angry at the people who campaign against these rooms. Some of them may have been misled by sources that shut out the voices of people who enjoy the rooms.

Others may know about students who had positive experiences in these rooms but don’t mention them to preserve their political interests. This isn’t their fault, but rather the result of a broken political system motivated by competition, greed, feeling superior, and a lack of empathy. While I understand that this system is a natural consequence of democracy, I designed Nonmonetized Together to be a place where people of all political orientations can avoid those parts of the system.

Now, you finally get the opportunity to have online discussions that focus on understanding each other and creating a better world. This is because Nonmonetized Together functions as a publicly accessible “backstage” to the current political landscape. Here, people can remove themselves from their roles as political figures and critically discuss the world as it really is, instead of following their stage directions.

If you try to use Nonmonetized Together to gain power or bring your political opponents down (like in mainstream “competitive politics”), your efforts WILL be thwarted and you WILL make a fool of yourself. I will redirect your discussion to make it more appropriate for Nonmonetized Together. I know I can push Nonmonetized Together to achieve this goal because I devote myself to religion, not politicians, so I’m not politically motivated the same way others are.

#Autism #MentalHealth #ActuallyAutistic #Psychology #Neurology

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Reading this reminded me of when I was in school.

Wait till you see my latest finished project, “A Letter From the Future.” No date set yet but it should be either August, September, or October.

A veritable trip down public schooling lane, as the title suggests.

Jim Irion


these rooms can be beneficial to people on the autism spectrum who have to deal with sensory overload.

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Jim Irion


I was reminded of this when reading Jim Irion’s article “A Conflict of Sensory Overload Proportions,” where he explains how quiet rooms could help him deal with his sensory overload.

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How did you do that? I wasn’t aware that, like Facebook, writers on here could, essentially, tag another writer to which they would receive a notification…

… which, in my case, is a good thing. I was able to see this article. Allow me to go back and read it.

Jim Irion

Start typing @ followed by the person's name. You will see a list of names appear and you click on the name of the person you want to tag.

Kevin the Nonmonetized

If you can gather attention of parents with schoolchildren ages 8-18, on Monday, August 5th, I’ll be having my first test for boost nomination here on Medium.

“A Letter From the Future”

Jim Irion

What do you mean?

Kevin the Nonmonetized

Can you be more specific, please?

Jim Irion

I'm not sure what you're talking about

Kevin the Nonmonetized

I'll be having an article published on August 5th that will be nominated for boosting. I wanted to let you know beforehand in case you wanted to highlight it in some way or somewhere.

“A Letter From the Future”

Jim Irion


Is that a picture of you?

Jim Irion

Sure is.

Kevin the Nonmonetized

Almost didn’t recognize you.

Jim Irion

So now that Nonmonetized Together is affiliated with the decadeology community, I’ve found it fit to write this article about older members who dismiss younger members’ perspectives. Some of the older members’ complaints don’t apply to younger people so it doesn’t make sense to tell the youth that their perspective is wrong.

This article could also be relevant to non-decadeologists if they participate in other online communities. But my examples in this article will be related to decadeology.

For example, the argument that “you can’t pin an era range down to a month” is ignorant of contemporary technology.

Back in the 90s, yes, this was true because only newsworthy events were documented. But you couldn’t track developing attitudes, cultural movements, and trends because these things evolved through mundane activities such as attendings events, talking to people, and buying things. Or to give even a more mundane example, just having a thought. Sometimes we have thoughts that change the way we live our lives.

But now these “unassuming” signs of cultural development are tracked on social media and timestamped down to the minute. Because of this, we can now follow the development of stories like the Capital storming or the ChatGPT developments in real time. Or we can see how political narratives develop. All of this is possible with the help of advanced search functions, trending feeds, and data such as Google Trends. This approach is used by KnowYourMeme to track memes and, yes, news stories as well.

Then there will be oldheads who will look at a thread that’s done in the style of “decadeology anarchy” and respond, “you sound weird even asking that question.” Which I would think most young users would already know, except maybe the very youngest users. The older members don’t see how the Internet has become the perfect spot for niche communities to form, and how newer niche communities differ from older ones.

Non-mainstream online communities have been a thing for as long as the Internet existed, but they really became a lot more commonplace and sustainable in the past few years. Now we’re at the point where it’s hard to even tell what counts as mainstream and what counts as underground. Everybody’s their own bubble. You couldn’t say that back in 2004.

Plus even the niche communities in the early days of the Internet were kind of uniform because most of them would consist of news, debates, artwork, surveys, rants, memes, discussions of the site itself, and an off-topic section. They could all be somewhat recognizable to outsiders.

Whereas here in 2024, the Internet could gather enough people to start r/decadeologyanarchy, a niche of a niche where people are free to abandon social conventions completely and make posts that would sound strange in real-life conversation, like year-by-year breakdowns or “images that give them the same vibes as 2014.”

So when you say, “that’s not a sane discussion topic,” you should know that this is the very reason that you’re seeing it on Reddit and not offline or on websites their IRL friends would see. This is also why the decadeology anarchy posts are appropriate for Nonmonetized Together, because it’s an environment where you can create your own social norms.

Then you have the comments that accuse people of being subjective. Like, they often show up whenever the community does year comparisons, or when they make a post about how good a year was, or when they make a post about how bad a year was. Sometimes in these cases, young people will be accused of bias for their opinions.

People fail to realize that the whole point of decadeology is to be subjective — that’s the difference between decadeology and history. It’s interesting to see other people’s personal subjective perspectives because we get to learn how they experience the world over the years.

So I am interested in the older members’ personal perspectives but it’s not fair to use that to attack other people’s perspectives. They’re no less biased than anybody else.

This article is also available at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/some-of-the-older-members-of-the-decadeology-community-could-be-more-self-aware-f114804e2cae

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#Internet #GettingOlder #OnlineCommunity #Decadeology #Reddit

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This article can also be viewed at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/implementing-writer-jim-irions-ideas-into-nonmonetized-together-8920419d8178

Nonmonetized Together is an online community where people share their ideas to inform the actions of the community members. Jim has shared a lot of knowledge about autism with Nonmonetized Together, so I will look through his articles and see how I can implement that knowledge into the Nonmonetized Together landscape. I will then send this article to him and ask for his feedback before publishing.

“Psychology and psychiatry still have difficulty defining what autism is. As a result of this being true, autism acceptance will not happen within the foreseeable future unless we deal with these problems together at their source” – We Need Everyone.

Takeaway: Some Nonmonetized Together users may live in an area where their neurotype, disability, or mental health situation is not well understood. This means that when we interact with each other, we should make sure not to evaluate people’s responses based on societal expectations. For example, we should not act with the assumption that people are neurotypical, nor should we act with the assumption that they are neurodivergent. Instead, we should take both possibilities into consideration even when the person hasn’t (yet) disclosed their situation. In addition, we can contribute to discussions by frequently mentioning how the discussion topic relates to neurodiversity, disability, or mental health. This way, Nonmonetized Together contributors can help each other be mindful of these topics.

“Again, society needs a stark reminder that autistic people are being stripped of their humanity and identified as a set of labels. We are still being defined as high-functioning or disabled” – To Be Or Not To Be Autistic.

Takeaway: There’s nothing wrong with giving a nuanced description of yourself in your Nonmonetized Together posts. Don’t feel pressured to reduce yourself to a label for the sake of simplicity. You’ll be accepted as who you are, not your label.

Also, this relates to something I realized when writing my last article. Using the word “they” is very dehumanizing in situations where “someone” or “one/some/all/any of them” would be more applicable. I will try to avoid using “they” in these situations. This allows me to dramatically sharpen readers’ abilities to understand each other while being subtle enough that I won’t be attacked for being woke. However, if I’m responding to someone who is using the word “they” when other options could be better, I might I have to use the same wording to make the conversation easier to follow.

“One month later, in September, I received [the health provider’s] response [to a presentation Jim did about how to respond to autistic needs]. I was supposed to email their recruitment help services to discuss accommodations with filling out written job applications. They ignored what I presented about cross-neurotype communication issues, the inadequacies of generalized mental healthcare, and my potential to enhance autism research as a primary source. I had no choice but to stand my ground.” – Journey of Accommodation, Part 3.

Takeaway: I will always give users additional chances to explain themselves if they don’t feel like I understood them. I will be willing to accept that I misunderstood what they were trying to say. I will not give up until both of us can agree that I grasped what they were saying.

“Those who are not autistic need to accept that society is designed with your neurotype in mind. Every single day, we have to mask and blend in just to manage our mental health, maintain employment, and avoid a wide range of conflicts. Some of which end in social isolation, bullying, suicide, depression, discrimination, or death. Some of these still happen to us anyway, regardless of what we try to do to avoid them.” – The Divide That Determines Our Future, Part 8

Takeaway: Remember, when you’re using Nonmonetized Together to discuss a topic with someone, you’re not just talking with that one person. You’re having a discussion that can be seen by people all over the world. Don’t give up the conversation just because the other person doesn’t understand. Maybe someone else reading the conversation can join in and help the two of you see eye to eye. To make it obvious, you can ask, “does anybody else here understand what I’m talking about?” Even if nobody joins in, remember that other readers may benefit from your comments.

“The soothing sound of George Harrison’s song “Cloud Nine” playing over the radio. The sweet smell of marigold flowers on a summer day. The soft touch of a satin-trimmed blanket between my fingers. The mouth-watering taste of a traditional Italian Stromboli. Or the vibrant color of green I would see during springtime. While I paid closer attention to these simple and positive sensory experiences, I became more aware of myself and my feelings.” – The Gift That Keeps On Giving

Takeaway: You can enhance your articles with embedded videos. Make sure to write descriptions of the videos for people who are unable to completely experience them. You can be creative and include other multisensory enhancers in your article too. For example, you can suggest that readers experience a certain scent when reading articles. They shouldn’t be mandatory though!

Do you want to help make Nonmonetized Together a supportive community? Share your ideas by writing some responses or posts. You might see some of us start spreading your knowledge in the future, like I did with Jim’s ideas in this article!

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#Inclusivity #Writing #Autism #SocialMedia #Neurodivergence

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Article also available at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/protecting-ourselves-from-totalitarian-movements-on-the-internet-c1fcad23db63.

What This Article Is About

Nonmonetized Together – an environment on Medium and write.as that promotes open dialogue, empowerment, personal development, and access to knowledge. A place where nobody is under pressure to be perfect. A world where you can take a breather from the political chaos on the rest of the Internet, where you can listen to and learn from each other instead of dunking on each other. A space where articles are phrased in a way that makes them useful for participants in a variety of ways, depending on each participant’s worldview.

But what if a Nonmonetized Together visitor’s worldviews involve forcefully taking these experiences away from people? How can participants successfully defend themselves from these movements while staying true to the values of Nonmonetized Together?

This is a topic we absolutely need to discuss because I believe that ordinary people deserve the same privileges as academic sociologists, but this would require the use of methods designed to prevent tyranny and hate. Firstly, anybody who tries to use Nonmonetized Together to silence opposition using force will be banned immediately. I’ll call these movements “first-degree totalitarianism.” But what about someone who is in favour of totalitarian ideas but also willing to act fairly on Nonmonetized Together? In this case, the goal would be to allow this person to participate the community while being careful that they don’t escalate into first-degree totalitarianism. Note that a movement doesn’t need to promote totalitarian beliefs to use first-degree totalitarian methods.

In this article, you and I will come up with ideas to prevent first-degree totalitarianism from taking over Nonmonetized Together. The ideas I will share are untested, so I’m going to run them by you and see what you think. Then, if I get a chance, I will try them out to see if they work. These ideas will be presented in a special format I created where I present the background info first, then the idea, then the supporting evidence. This will be done to prevent people from misinterpreting the background info as supporting evidence and vice versa.

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But before I begin describing them, you should know that I would also love to hear your ideas on how to overcome totalitarianism. You might want to read up on Nonmonetized Together so you can get a sense of whether it is the best place to implement your plans. Or if you want, you can just wing it and not read up on us. Either way, I will send you a response telling you whether Nonmonetized Together can implement your plans and why/why not.

Here are some articles that can help guide your understanding of the community (choose whatever article you feel like reading):

(About Our Blog) Tired of Internet Drama and Fakeness? This Community Can Help With That.

8 Things I Can Only Do Here On Nonmonetized Together.

Why I Added #Svalien to the Nonmonetized Together Title.

How This Online Community Fights Against the Stigma of Mental Illness.

Worried About Political Interests On Nonmonetized Together?

This Common Internet Practice Embodies Most of the Worst (Legal) Aspects of Internet Culture.

This Blog’s Comment Sections Will Make You Feel Significant.

Check Out This Brand-New Social Media Metric.

Keep in mind that Nonmonetized Together is a community based off of norms, not rules, so nothing in the above articles are set in stone. This means that if you see a Nonmonetized Together guideline that presents a problem for implementing your anti-totalitarian ideas, you can try writing a comment that makes a case for the guideline to be changed. If you can show that your ideas can be successful in relation to Nonmonetized Together’s context, I can update the norms to include your ideas. But just because a discursive strategy is successful in the greater society or the political sphere, doesn’t mean it will be successful on Nonmonetized Together. The strategies that are useful here are different.

Background info for idea #1:

See introduction.

Idea #1:

Anybody who uses Nonmonetized Together to forcefully silence opposition and/or spread information designed to create unrest will be banned immediately once we find out.

Supporting evidence for idea #1:

We need users to feel that first-degree totalitarian methods are counterproductive on Nonmonetized Together. By having zero tolerance for these methods, Nonmonetized Together can achieve its goal of being an environment that makes up for the unequal power relations in the greater society. Totalitarianism, on the other hand, causes inequality. By protecting itself from totalitarian movements, Nonmonetized Together allows users to share and receive information that could give members strength and agency.

Background info for idea #2:

Nonmonetized Together has its own unique set of norms, different than that of the rest of social media, and painstakingly designed to promote responsible free speech without falling into the same traps that ruined other free-speech websites. By operating on norms instead of rules, any Nonmonetized Together user gets to interact in a way that directly transforms the existing norms that have gotten society in this deep mess of stressful unproductive discussion. This makes it possible for a non-totalitarian to share knowledge that can challenge a supporter (not actor) of totalitarianism without either person feeling threatened enough to retaliate.

In my attempt to create new norms that can allow Internet users to create a better future, I have studied social media discussions for hundreds of hours, wondering how they could have been handled better. My autism allows me to pinpoint problematic social behaviour that most people take for granted. On top of that, the autism supports I received growing up allowed me to realize the importance of providing personalized support to people who want to do things right but who fail to do so. I am motivated by the possibility that there may not be another chance for people to band together and make a better Internet. Without Nonmonetized Together, our future could be in the hands of whoever can make people the most anxious about the future.

Idea #2:

Because of this context, nobody who states support of totalitarian ideas will be removed from the community without them doing first-degree totalitarianism.

Supporting evidence for idea #2:

This allows anti-totalitarians to take advantage of the fact that unlike the rest of the Internet, this is a safe social landscape devoted to listening and learning, and anti-totalitarians can use that to engage in dialogue that could point totalitarians to safer paths. By understanding the suffering that totalitarian beliefs inflict on totalitarians, anti-totalitarians can encourage peace and tolerance in a way that totalitarians will understand. Participants may receive direct knowledge from a totalitarian about what caused them to take such extreme approaches, and since this is an environment based off listening and learning, we can use this information to solve the issues that led people to choose totalitarianism. These opportunities just aren’t available elsewhere on the mainstream Internet due to censorship, as well as the fact that most people on the Internet would rather act hysterical than try to get along with each other. However, Nonmonetized Together uses free speech to resist radicalization instead of welcoming radicalization, so I hope that we won’t get censored by Medium or write.as.

I’m aware that free speech has contributed to online radicalization in the past, but I also realize that if I block and ignore viewpoints that need improvement, then I’ll just be shifting the responsibility of handling these problems to future generations. And if we continue to ignore the problem, then these generations will be more powerless than present generations, and will have a harder time fighting against these movements! By blocking and ignoring totalitarian ideas, society is leaving it up to totalitarians to solve the problem on their own. Guys, society’s putting fascists in charge of ending fascism! And people wonder why many of us feel unsafe.

Background info for idea #3:

A movement can use first-degree totalitarian methods to promote non-totalitarian messages. Nonmonetized Together is committed to wiping out all first-degree totalitarianism completely.

Idea #3:

I want to hold all first-degree totalitarian movements to the same standards regardless of the movement’s message.

Supporting info for idea #3:

If Nonmonetized Together readers think that I am being partial to one group of people, this could lead to unnecessary conflict. To avoid this, I will hold everyone to the same standards.

Background info for idea #4:

Here on Nonmonetized Together, nobody benefits from forces of power. Community members instead benefit from respect, listening, and fairness.

How do I manage this? By only approving articles that set a tone of cooperativity and solutions, making the comment section mostly free speech, and then guiding the conversations into more productive directions when things go awry. By doing this, I can implicitly set norms and standards for readers’ responses, and these norms and standards can be more civil than that of the rest of the Internet. This means that while a reader can have the freedom to reply what they want, I can set a precedent as to how they comment and for what purpose, without being forceful about it.

The most important goal on Nonmonetized Together is to accurately understand what people are trying to say. We just need to say exactly what we mean and make sure readers know that. We can do this by explaining our points clearly, logically, and literally enough to erase any concerns of double meaning. We can start comments with “let me know if I understand correctly…” and then clarify. To avoid conflict, we can start off our responses by finding common ground with the other person before getting into disagreements.

Idea #4:

When I see someone who says something in favour of totalitarianism without using first-degree totalitarianism, I will tell the commenter even though they may feel the need to use first-degree totalitarianism in the outside world, that need will never be as strong as on Nonmonetized Together. I will use the information in this idea’s background to explain how this is done, and then I will invite the totalitarian to discuss the issues that pushed them in that direction, so we can actually work towards solving these problems.

Supporting evidence for idea #4:

If somebody goes down the wrong trail and gets lost, you don’t let that person fend for themselves, you need to contact them. Same thing here. You can’t expect to solve societal problems by leaving the problem up to the person who is causing them. We need to put politics aside, form alliances with these people, and give each one a chance to explain their situation, so none of them have to use violence or threats to find a solution.

Background info for idea #5:

Nonmonetized Together has its own unique set of norms, different than that of the rest of social media, and painstakingly designed to promote responsible free speech without falling into the same traps that ruined other free-speech websites. By operating on norms instead of rules, any Nonmonetized Together user gets to interact in a way that directly transforms the existing norms that have gotten society in this deep mess of stressful unproductive discussion. This makes it possible for a non-totalitarian to share knowledge that can challenge a supporter (not actor) of totalitarianism without either party feeling threatened enough to retaliate.

One way you can show a user that you’re not out to get them is to be grateful whenever one of them notices a hole in your logic. Eagerly view it as a tool for growth. This may allow them to see you’re being cooperative, not competitive. Even if they’re wrong about there being a hole in your logic, you don’t need to get defensive. You can correct them, but you can tell them you appreciate their effort.

Idea #5:

When using Nonmonetized Together to communicate with others, you might want to try showing them that you’re not out to get them.

Supporting evidence for idea #5:

It’s very important that Nonmonetized Together is a non-confrontational environment. This can be achieved by acting non-confrontational. By reducing conflict, totalitarianism can be made unnecessary on Nonmonetized Together. If a reader makes a response that misinterprets your post as an attack, it’s best to de-escalate the situation right away. Listen, the reader probably isn’t doing this just to be mean. The reader likely made that response because they view you as a threat.

Background info for idea #6:

Where and how do we find cases of first-degree totalitarianism? We need a method that will not create fear and distrust among the community.

Idea #6:

My suggestion is to do some non-confrontational inspections wherever we see something that may suggest a first-degree totalitarian movement. This would involve asking users questions that will determine whether they are innocent or guilty.

Supporting info for idea #6:

If we word these inspections carefully, we can make it so people know we’re not trying to be aggressive. Maybe a participant can begin their comments by saying they respect the non-totalitarian parts of their post but then mention that they are “concerned” about the part that appears totalitarian, saying “I just noticed what might be a problem” with the post. Non-totalitarian participants can tell them that we want their movement to do as much as good as it can, but that there are a few things it needs to do first before the people behind the movement can start benefitting.

Background info for idea #7:

Sometimes we may run into a participant who is not interested in contributing to productive discussion or helping other participants grow. I don’t want to censor them, but I also don’t want them to turn Nonmonetized Together into a cesspool. What can we do to discourage them from contributing to the community?

Idea #7:

Maybe we can tell the troublemaker something that would scare them off from the community. By “scaring them off,” I don’t mean “say something that would make them angry”, I mean “say something that’s so honest that they would socially alienate you in response.” Ideally, it should be something about the community that they may find off-putting.

Supporting evidence for idea #7:

These people can only bring trouble to Nonmonetized Together, so don’t worry if many of them want nothing to do with us. By making responses that cause feelings of discomfort, we get to reinforce Nonmonetized Together’s nonsugarcoated identity in the process.

Conclusion

Nonmonetized Together is not for everybody. Participants need to be brave enough to investigate the cracks in society that have led some people to disturbing life pathways. But people have engineered online social spaces to create division, alienation, and paranoia, so Nonmonetized Together can use social engineering to undo the damage.

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Earliest Mars Bar Video on YouTube: mb, uploaded by jaaney, January 26, 2006.

This was the only video jaaney posted to YouTube and for some reason they chose this one. Just two people trying a deep-fried Mars Bar.

Earliest M&Ms video on YouTube: Blue m&m’s, uploaded by mrquigley, November 8, 2005. (Contains Adult Content).

I’m only two videos in and I think I already have a contender for “the candy in this article that is used most creatively for its earliest YouTube video.” This is a main reason why I thought this article would be interesting, because you can never know what you’ll find when you’re searching for the earliest YouTube videos on certain topics.

As the description says, “X-men man thing likes his candy only to discover his mom is a pedophile..” If you thought this would be a respectful, sensitive video about pedophilia, you were wrong.

Earliest Kit Kat video on YouTube: Counting Kit Kats, uploaded by Michlitsch, October 31, 2005.

A family home video that involves counting Kit Kats.

Earliest Reese’s Pieces video on YouTube: President Bush Seeks Advice — E.T., uploaded by BrendanBrendan, May 9, 2006.

I can’t make out what ET says in response to Bush’s question about illegal aliens.

Earliest Hershey’s video on YouTube: Hershey’s cupcake, uploaded by beccanorman, November 7, 2005.

This video is of someone ordering getting a giant Hershey’s cupcake with chocolate pieces sticking out. Looks like a mess.

Earliest Snickers video on YouTube: GRAB A SNICKERS, uploaded by Georgina Acebedo, November 24, 2005.

This seven-second video is about how you can put Snickers bars in between your boobs. There isn’t really anything in this video that isn’t given away in the thumbnail.

Earliest Milky Way video on YouTube: Why so blue Panda Bear?, uploaded by kinhova, April 7, 2006.

I’m surprised this article didn’t include any commercials until now.

Earliest Oh Henry video on YouTube: ow henry, uploaded by josive, February 19, 2006.

What is this even.

Earliest Twix video on YouTube: rizzo doesn’t like twix, uploaded by sh8dbrady, December 8, 2005.

A video of kids fooling around with a Twix bar.

Earliest Maltesers video on YouTube: “malteser madness,” uploaded by ragdolls100, March 5, 2006.

This video captures “the Malteser game,” a game in which two players sit on opposite sides of a chair with a Malteser in the middle. The purpose is to blow it off the chair so it lands on your opponent’s side. It sounds fun but the game usually takes five seconds (at most) to finish.

Want to look up early YouTube videos yourself? You can do this by specifying your date range in the search bar. To find videos earlier than a specific date, use the format before:yyyy-mm-dd in the search bar. So if you want to look at videos from before February 18, 2006, you type “before:2006–02–18”. You can also search for videos from after a specific date using the format after:yyyy-mm-dd.

Article is also available here: https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/10-oldest-surviving-youtube-videos-for-10-different-chocolate-bars-d57ae90cce12.

#2000s #YouTube #Chocolate #Internet #Brands

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This article is also available at https://medium.com/non-monetized-together/10-facts-that-will-mess-with-your-sense-of-time-2024-version-5a2898e9faa2.

  1. In five weeks, Jennifer Lopez will be old enough to order off the senior’s menu at Applebee’s.

2. Gordie Howe’s NHL career started before Bobby Orr was born and ended after Orr made it to the Hockey Hall of Fame

3. Alexander Graham Bell could have eaten at A&W.

4. The world’s oldest living person, Maria Branyas, was born in 1907, which means she was already 19 years old when Buster Keaton’s The General, was released.

5. Harriet Tubman and Bing Crosby were alive at the same time.

6. Gloria Swanson could have watched MTV.

7. The Joy of Painting with Bob Ross premiered on January 11, 1983, closer to the release of Dumbo than today.

8. Caitlyn Jenner was born closer to the invention of sneakers than today.

9. Pope Francis was born before the invention of the helicopter.

10. Mark Ronson is 48 years old, one year older than Barack Obama was when he became president.

Also, this isn’t related to the article, but if you Google how AI works, the top results are all from AI startups, and it takes a while until you find results from more balanced sources. Just goes to show how useless Google is becoming.

#History #FunFacts #Listicle #List #PopCulture

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